What to Do When Your Child Says, “I Hate Reading”

It’s a phrase no parent wants to hear: “I hate reading.” But when a child says this, it’s rarely about disliking books—it’s usually about how reading makes them feel.

Maybe reading is hard. Maybe they’re embarrassed to read aloud. Maybe they’re falling behind and don’t know how to catch up. Whatever the reason, there’s hope.

Here’s how you can help:

1. Stay Curious, Not Reactive. Ask: “What makes it feel hard?” or “When do you feel that way most?”

2. Read to Them—Even if They’re OlderThey still need to fall in love with stories, even if decoding is hard.

3. Choose Content They Want to Read: Graphic novels, audiobooks, joke books—it all counts.

4. Don’t Dismiss Their Feelings. Saying “reading is important” isn’t helpful when they feel defeated. Acknowledge the struggle, and offer hope.

5. Get the Right Support. A structured, multisensory approach (like Orton-Gillingham) can help children not only read better, but feel better about reading.

Your child doesn’t hate reading. They hate feeling unsuccessful. Let's change that.

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